How often do we surrender to a moment of pure, uninhibited joy?
Instead of worrying, feeling angry and sad, why can't we choose to feel that sense of childhood wonder? Is it because we feel self-conscious and afraid of what others would think or say about us? Are we greedy for compliments and validation, that we are scared of being criticized? Do we have the notion that we are less of a person if we can't measure up?
It is easier to discover happiness in and around us when we feel complete and in balance - having self-esteem, a good self-concept and independence. Others may not like our ideas and the different ways we do things, but still, be your own person and don't pass the chance to do something creative and fun.
Take a brisk early morning walk or sit quietly in the early morning light, and absorb the beauty around you. Dress the way you like. Say good things instead of complaining. Laugh about your shortcomings. Hold yourself accountable for your choices. Stay focused and interested in whatever you are doing. Realize that you possess nothing: that everything is a loan. Take risks. And most of all, let go of the need to be right.
June is the month of roses...go out and smell the roses...
