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Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Friday, August 31, 2012

Somewhere You Are...

Somewhere you are but I may never find you...

Midst the sea of nameless faces, I search for that familiar face which haunts my dreams and reveries...a face that's etched within my mind...a face that would not leave my heart...I would gaze deeply in a stranger's eyes...hoping that I would find within the reflection of my soul...and as each intimate stranger touch my life I pray that it would be the last...

In my endless quest and aimless wanderings, somewhere you are...

But I may never find you...

longing

Today I sat and watched the waves
And watched the birds that flew
Today I sat and thought of life
And thought of life with you

Today I sat and thought of love
And thought of love for you
Today I sat and looked about
And looked about for you

Today I walked and walked about
I walked in search of you
Today I walked in search of love
In search of a dream come true


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Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Live Life...

butterfly woman

sometimes we search so much for the right choices...for the right paths to walk through...for the right time...for the right person...and for the right reasons...but life isn't about searching for things that can be found....it's about letting the unexpected happen and finding things you never searched for...it's about meeting old people but making new conversations...walking through old roads but still feeling nice about it...meeting busy schedules but still finding time for old friends...realizing that you have grown a day older but still feeling young at heart...

live life while you still can...wake up each day and discover something new...and most of all, live for today and enjoy the moment...

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Friday, May 11, 2012

Here's Looking at YOU...

people watching

Have you ever found yourself engrossed in watching a stranger without meaning to? Something interesting must have caught your attention.

Many a times, while seated in one corner of a restaurant and waiting for a friend, I'd realize I have been watching the other customers. There'd be a group probably celebrating an occasion...a couple deep in conversation...a family eating out...

Or in a coffee shop, just after lunch, on a comfy sofa while gazing out the glass window, I'd watch the passers-by. There'd be the officemates hurrying back to work with cellphone neck straps advertising their company...some students in uniform busy with their gadgets...an old couple holding hands...ladyboys looking more gorgeous than real ladies, tall and slim in stilettos, garbed in the latest fashion trends...strolling couples lost in their own world...busy people going about their own lives...

Or at the park, sitting in a bench, I would notice that there'd be others occupying the scattered benches, mostly couples. Sometimes, it's even hard not to get wrapped up in someone else's conversation or public disagreement.

People-watching have become one of my favorite hobbies. Although I seldom do it actively, I often find myself doing it subconsciously. I guess most of us probably do...at the malls, inside a public transport, at the beach, inside the church...

We are all different in what we take in when we observe people. Something peculiar, unusual, unique or that really stands out usually catches our attention. While some are into general appearance, some would remember exact details, others are into body language. 

You, when you people-watch, are you a generalist who absorbs everything? Or are you interested in details? 

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Thursday, July 14, 2011

Acceptance and Accountability...

woman by the sea


We are not perfect. In fact, most of us are damaged goods. We were raised by imperfect parents in an imperfect world. We were educated by flawed teachers and we mingled with fallible peers. We went through life with so much hurts and pains that the trauma is holding us back, preventing us from living the life we are dreaming of. We know we cannot change the past and the only way we can move on is to accept it and work with what we have. We should stop blaming others and our circumstances for what we have become. Blame would not advance us. We cannot control others or events. We can only control our own thoughts and actions. So we should learn to accept the things we cannot change and take responsibility for the choices we make.

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Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Live Well...

life quote


In life, there are two choices: to move forward or to stagnate. If you want to move forward, you have to turn your back from the past and face your present and future with your eyes wide open. You do not leave your other foot stuck in the past. If you do you are immobilized and your failures will hold you back. You are left to cope with “what ifs”, “should haves” and a pile of regrets. Nothing changes and when you feel this way, you start to believe that nothing will change.

If you sincerely want to change, you drop the anger, the pain, the disappointments and the sad experiences behind you. It is hard to leave the past. It is difficult to forgive and forget the people who may have hurt you, but you have to do for your own peace of mind. If you truly want to be free, you mentally close the door of the past firmly behind you and open another door to freedom.

When you leave your past behind, you don’t carry over into your present life a mental chart of the things or actions other people did to you. You do not spend three hours a day wringing your hands and trying to understand why unfortunate incident happened. You do not moan over the unfair judgment passed to you. What you do, if you want to get positively even, is to make your life so successful that your enemies will wonder how you recovered so fast! As one writer says, "Living well is the best revenge."

Our life is determined by the choices we make. We make or break our lives. Sometimes we come out unscathed. Usually, we don’t. Now, it’s up to mend our torn selves and put them back into pieces. Only when this is done can we say that we are free from the negative, misleading past.

“LIFE CAN ONLY BE UNDERSTOOD BACKWARD, BUT IT MUST BE LIVED FORWARD.”


~ i found this online a long time ago...it's very inspiring and worth reflecting on...i hope it will give you some nuggets of wisdom...~

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